"Why do they keep misunderstanding me?" We often hear people complain. Misunderstanding seems to be one of the most disturbing issues in interpersonal relationships. We often see how it undermines the harmonious relationships between people.

Several factors contribute to misunderstanding. First, people with different personal and cultural backgrounds may have diverse perspectives in interpreting one behavior. Second, the language we use as a vehicle of conveying thought can be ambiguous, and various ways of decoding (解码)words may result in barriers in communication. Third, misunderstanding occurs because of a lack of mutual trust. If you have prejudice (偏见) against someone, whatever he says may sound iii intentioned to you.

Having gone so far in the exploration of the causes of misunderstanding, we can easily arrive at the ways to avoid them. Firstly, we should be broad minded and be tolerant of the differences among people. Secondly, we should be accurate and appropriate in our handle of language, avoiding misleading words. Thirdly, we should be constructive and patient in dealing with people. If we try hard enough, there will be more understanding and less misunderstanding in this world.
范文分析
本篇文章在表达方面的一个突出特点就是形容词的运用。如disturbing(令人烦恼的)、interpersonal(人际间的)、harmonious(和谐融洽的)、ambiguous(模棱两可的)、ill—intentioned(恶意的)、broad—minded(开通的)、tolerant(宽容的)、misleading(误导的)、accurate(准确的)、appropriate(得休的)、constructive(建设性的)等。这些形容词在表情达意方面，起到了准确高效的作用。另外，关联词及从句的大量合理运用，使表达凝练，意思上联系紧密，句子结构紧凑。hxw.red